The vast majority of foreign weddings are held in Santorini where it is practically an industry. But you can get married on just about any island in Greece these days if you have done your homework or have paid someone to do it for you. The most popular islands for getting married after Santorini are Sifnos, Kea, and Mykonos since they are all beautiful islands and close enough to Athens to make it easy for guests to come. |
A Perfect
Greek Wedding
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1) The most beautiful
wedding I have ever seen took place in the
village of Vathi on the island of Sifnos in
the Greek Cyclades. We were not officially
guests of the wedding though we knew the
brother of the bride. We just happened to be
staying in the village and when he saw us we
were invited to a celebration I will always
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2) From our vantage
point, which was the room we had rented in a tiny
monastery on the second floor, we saw the wedding
party walking along the beach towards us. They
were not exactly walking, more like dancing and at
first we were unsure what this mass of people
signified. Had a traveling dance troupe just
gotten off the bus?
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3) As they got closer we
saw that they were being led by two musicians one
on the fiddle and the other playing an aoud. As
they played they also sang and the people in the
wedding party would laugh at the lyrics. The two
old musicians I have seen and heard at many
panagiris (religious festivals) and celebrations
on Sifnos and are for hire.
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4) As the happy group
passed beneath us there was not a bride or
groom in sight. The group disappeared into the
village and when they reappeared they had the
bride and groom with them. She was a famous
daytime television actress and he was from
Austria.
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5) They all went into
the church where the ceremony was held, led by
a bearded Orthodox priest. Then the church
emptied and they filled the small courtyard
and the music continued until sunset when the
real fun began.
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6) The group slowly
drifted apart and then reappeared at the
restaurant of Manolis, down the beach. There was a
lamb roasting and the two old musicians were still
going strong, their wine glasses kept full
throughout the night to keep them playing.
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7) It was a mixed crowd
of Greeks and foreigners and the dancing went on
through the evening. People who just happened to be in the taverna that night took part in the celebration too.
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8) Even the priest danced. If I was ever to get married this was exactly how I
would have done it.
You can do this wedding for a lot cheaper than what a wedding will cost in Santorini. For more information contact Aegean Thesaurus Travel on Sifnos with this form.
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Getting Married in Greece: The
Reality
Getting
married in Greece requires some red tape and
in Greece, any red tape is too much. But it
can be done and there are people who
actually
provide
weddings
as a service (for example see Fantasy Travel's wedding pages). Most of the
weddings are held in Santorini, where foreign weddings are more common
because you
can't find a setting much more romantic then
on the rim of a volcano with the sea 1000 feet
below.
If you want to do
it on your own you will need to contact the
president or mayor of the community for a
civil wedding, or the head priest for a
religious wedding. Your birth certificate will
need to be translated and an ad put in the
local papers so that anyone on the island who
has a reason for you not to get married can
protest in advance rather then come on like
Dustin Hoffman in the Graduate. You can also
use a US marriage license in Greece, as long
as it has been authenticated by the
Greek consulate in the USA and
translated.
One of the best
reasons to get married in Greece is that you
don't have to travel very far for your
honeymoon. You are already there. Also how
many people have wished they could bring their
friends and family with them on their
honeymoon? If they made it to the wedding then
they will be there.
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Getting Married in Greece the Easy
Way
Assuming that you
believe that a wedding is an exchange of vows
before God, then there is an alternative to
going through the red tape of the civil or
Orthodox wedding, or spending the money to
have it done professionally. This would be a
simple exchange of vows, with or without
witnesses after having been 'officially'
married by a justice of the peace in America.
You find the most beautiful, spiritual spot
you can and before of eyes of God and either
by yourselves or in the company of friends,
exchange your wedding vows. No red tape, no
permission needed, no money down. Just the two
of you in your own special ceremony that you
will always remember because it was 100%
yours. You can spend the first few days of
your trip looking for the perfect location and
that will add purpose to the journey.
If you want it to
be 'official' have one of your friends send
away to became an ordained minister from one
of the many churches that do this. Once he
fills out the paperwork he can legally perform
marriages. I actually did this once and if I
had not let my 'membership' in the Church of
Mother Earth lapse, I would be in Santorini
right now performing marriages in exchange for
food and wine. I think it cost me $25 to
become a minister and I did perform one
wedding in North Carolina. (They are divorced
now.)
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Getting Married in Greece: Useful Information
So in
Greece there are many ways to do this and it
depends upon what type of person you are which
method you will use. If you are
interested in seeing some wedding packages in
Santorini offered by Fantasy Travel visit the Fantasy Travel Wedding and Renewal of Vows Page.
They can give you a package and take care of
all the details including the reception,
transportation, paperwork and hotel reservations for your
guests and handle any travel arrangements you
will need either before or after the ceremony.
They can also help you create your own unique
wedding.
You can also do the simple Sifnos wedding as outlined above by contacting Aegean Thesaurus Travel with this Form
If you need
wedding rings see
Byzantino Jewelry
since if you are
going to be married in Greece you will
probably want something appropriate.
Or check out Olympico Jewelry which has more modern Greek jewelry.
To read about the
Traditional Greek Service of the
Crowning
click here
Read the Official
US Embassy Report on Marriage in
Greece.
See also Matt's Greece Honeymoon Page
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